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When ADHD and Narcissists date!

The story of the Lion & The Giraffe…. Can those with ADHD really date a true narcissist successfully? I mean I say true narcissist because 2025 sees us using that word so freely. However imagine a true Narcissist, one that ticks every single box, a true narcissist combines ASPD, formally known as the term we […]

Narcissists and their constant need for admiration…

Are you a supplier to a narcissist? Do you feed their habit, their ego? But can a narcissist ever be happy and in love? Quote ‘A leopard never changes its spots’ – Maybe not but can the right woman, over time watch those spots fade, and don’t we all have an essence of Narcissist deep […]

Are there benefits to Celibacy?

Pro’s and Con’s of Celibacy Celibacy, abstinence, no sex, lots of sex, regular sex… Yes I can almost hear your minds right now, reading that title, who in their right mind? Celibacy has its pro’s and con’s and no therapist or human being can tell you, life with your legs shut tight, is healthy, I […]

Breadcrumbing Vs Ghosting – Are we all …

We cannot even Eenie, meanie, mo this one, because the 2024 get of men, don’t provide a 3rd option. Yes I speak for the masses on this. I recently posted on a ‘Dating group’ filled with 100k women, and the post went off the scale.. Initially I thought is this an age bracket issue, but […]

The Cycle

Your heart skips a beat, you swipe right, and guess what ‘It’s a match’ – there really is something about that uncertainty surrounding that Right swipe, that is part of the hardwire of our brain, a primal drive to find a mate. When a match happens, the reward pathway is activated, our Brains Ventral Tegental […]